Nancy Matz Psychic Medium

It is my understanding that spirits are not stuck ...

2011-05-10T15:09:19.471-07:00

It is my understanding that spirits are not stuck in linear time as we are and may freely move through our timeline to arrange things like "chance" meetings. Therefore it is not a coincidence and was mostly arranged by "unseen" forces.

Hi Nancy, Great story about Eloise's NDE. I r...

2011-01-14T12:14:52.459-07:00

Hi Nancy,
Great story about Eloise's NDE. I read Dannion Brinkley's three books about his NDE's, and they seem to be similar to your story. Both people stated that life as we know it doesn't end after our heart stops beating.
I had an innocent as a child, five years old. My younger brother (13months) difference,had to cross a street to get to the store for Baseball cards. While waiting for the traffic signal to change for Rick and I to cross, I looked up and seen the light had changed. Without looking at the cars, I dashes into the road hitting a front fender of a car who ran the light. I knew I was hurt, and scared. I got up and tried to run to my mother for safety as any child would do. My mother heard the sirens of the ambulance, and told me as an adult she knew they were coming for me. I remember inside of the ambulance, people talking, my moms voice, and feeling pain. Then there wasn't any pain, but many voices telling me to look at Jimmy's face! I didn't know who Jimmy was, and said no. This happen two times, but as I said only voices no faces. The next thing I remember is going into the E.R.doors. I was in the hospital close to ten days, after being released to come home. I asked my mom who Jimmy was? She looked at me and said she would tell me later. I later learned that Mom's first cousin was killed in an automobile accident about a week prior to mine. I feel that it was possibly my mom cousin's spirit trying to tell me it wasn't not my time to cross over.
Nancy, I feel that as you were writing this story about Eloise. Spirit was guiding your hand tell let other know that they are still with us even after death.
Sincerely, Phil Whitt/Ohio

We recently talked of this, and she agrees she nee...

2010-12-19T21:13:38.813-07:00

We recently talked of this, and she agrees she needs to be more powerful. She recently decorated her house with some updating and feels she does not him in her new life. Good for her!

If I've come as far as working so hard to own ...

2010-12-01T05:27:49.333-07:00

If I've come as far as working so hard to own my own home and enjoying my wine and peace every evening, I would try to learn why I desire men who are controlling, and do some soul-searching.

Does she want someone who undermines her need for self-sufficiency. Why?
Does she have a need for someone to fix? Why?

I would do my best to learn how to let go of this person.

-P

Thank you ladies for the great advice. She is awar...

2010-11-30T19:13:18.891-07:00

Thank you ladies for the great advice. She is aware that I've posted this story and a note will be sent to her to see what you have written. You are well aware, that when someone is blinded by love, it is hard to see the truth until they personally take the blinders off themselves. Thank you again ladies, Nancy

Anything less than "Good-bye" to this ma...

2010-09-24T23:40:17.965-07:00

Anything less than "Good-bye" to this man will keep the same old dance going. They weren't single when they met. Neither were truly available, which is why they returned to their ex's. If this woman truly wants to be married, she would not settle for a 2x/month relationship. She should opt for short-term pain in lieu of long-term misery - a decision she should have made before.
I agree with the prior comment, and would add that she needs to seriously work on her own issues if she indeed wants to find a loving, committed relationship.
Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT
www.darlenelancer.com

Hi Nancy!! Long time no chat. I heard something fr...

2010-09-22T19:49:40.326-07:00

Hi Nancy!! Long time no chat. I heard something from a relationship author, in regards to a woman who has waited for her man for 7 yrs, her final entreaty, "Is this a losing battle?"

Steven James Dixon, Relationship Author: It's not a losing battle. It's a battle that has already been lost. You've already lost--it's over. What I tell women in these scenarios is that you have to give yourself an ultimatum, not him. Know your value, know what YOU want."

There's nothing to say to this man. I'd say to her, "What do YOU want in a relationship? How will you ever have the relationship you want when he treats you as such? He's dishonest. He's lied for 8 years." His life is not that lost if he can manage to only see her a couple times a month.

Who's really in trouble here? Him or her? He's got what he wants, a marriage and a girl on the side. SHE is most important, SHE needs to treat herself with more respect. She should not be treating herself with less respect than he is giving her, and let me say again, he's giving her NOTHING.

Much peach, love, and prayers to her. I know it's going to be like dumping a drug. But when someone loves us, they do things sometimes they don't want to do because they love us.