Emotional shake that "Ex" out of your life!

8-10-2010


Hello everyone,

Got a call today from a client who was at work and so depressed that she was prompted to call me and see what I could tell her. Two years ago she left a marriage where the husband had not released the other woman he dated prior to their marriage nine years earlier.

Within weeks of their separation the “other woman” came fully back into his life.

All three of their lives were intertwined because they all worked for the same company at one time, and now share all the same friends.

Two years later this past week, the ex and the “other woman” who is now permanently moved into his home, went on a vacation with the club they belonged to.

This friend, who called me today, told me that even though this sounded like a great trip decided not to go because of her ex also going. Friends called her two days ago reporting back to her how this couple were in conflict with each other, and the girlfriend being very bossy.

Today my friend, while at work suddenly was flooded with the thoughts of her ex. A work mate came over and asked if she was alright because she looked pale and upset. My friend said she was feeling depressed and weighted down and something wasn’t right with the world. She then left for a break walking outside with her phone and called me.

Answering the phone, she was elated for me to answer. “Thank goodness you were near the phone, I am so down or depressed. I can’t get “J” out of my mind, even had a dream of him last night.” She then told me of the friends returning from the trip and how glad she had not gone.

Turning on my “psychic energy” and moving to her, I had to maneuver around a dark donut shape smoky energy encircling her torso. As I touched this foreign soul touching her, it reacted back to me with “I am J”. Well, well, well you have an “attachment”! I almost yelled at her. A living attachment can be a loved one or could be someone like “J” who has remorse, longing or regret. Clearly he has attached to his ex my friend; perhaps he may regret and wished that he was still married to her as this trip would have been more fun or remembering that his now ex was never as bossy as the girlfriend was on this trip. How many scenarios can I create that would or could describe why this man is wrapped around his ex-wife my friend.

“Well how do I get him off me?” She sounded angered and feeling victimized by him once more.

Shake him off like a wet dog trying to dry off. “Really!” she said.

What if we had the ability to color this energy and you could see the “cording” from him to you like a thick braid and then the wrapping around your torso. Wouldn’t you want to push it off of you? Or perhaps get a really big pair of scissors to cut and sever the connection?

“What a great way to think about that. I’ll do it, and think of that gray cloud around me moving back to him and his miserable life!”

Then announcing that she needed to get back to work, my last words to her were, “This will be a good topic for my blog!”

So, how many of you are still thinking of someone with regret and unhappiness, or anger and remorse?

What message are you giving that person? Do you think they will come back into your life if you are sending that message?

My best thought is to completely pull your life force back to you. Keep you to yourself. Create a “missing in the other person’s world” by shaking him off from you! If the other person is smart enough to figure out what is keeping he or she from being happy and may discover it is you. Then you will be in the winning place to make the decision to accept the return of this individual into your life, based on an emotionally healthier place than when the split occurred.